Strategy of reconciliation. Can be expressed though symptomatic or regressive behavior. This way, children try to keep their parents together.
Strategy to reduce the distress of the separation: Intense emotional reactions during visits or meetings with parents because they feel the distress of separation again.
Strategy to cause tension. To reduce tension between parents, children often offer themselves as scapegoats in order to become the center of attention.
Strategy to confirm love. The child is afraid of losing their parents, so they tend to verify the parent’s love by trying to hold all their attention.
Strategy to confirm loyalty. Children feel divided between their parents so they won’t express themselves naturally, they will try to act as they think their parents expect them to.
Strategy of seeking balance and absolute justice. Children will try to make the same concessions with both parents to avoid conflicts.
Strategy to protect the self-esteem of the children. When children receive the anger of one of the parents against the other they usually move away from the one that is creating the situation.
Strategy to protect the self-esteem of the parents. If the children notice vulnerability in one of the parents they can become their emotional support.
Strategy to get a permissive life style. Children can manipulate the situation for their own benefit. They don’t express much emotional distress. This reaction shows a weak relationship with one or both of the parents or an escape from parental conflicts.
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